This concept pops up every couple of years, in my mind and (at
least once) in my blog. Do I want to
spend the rest of my life in this admittedly pleasant house in a
not-so-pleasant town where I know a few people I rarely see and don’t get out
much because there’s nowhere to get out to?
Answer, no. So I really ought to
relocate – but where?
I’d been talking to my brother about this, and he
sympathised, but made a remark that has stuck in my mind: “Don’t leave it too
long.”
He’s right. Inertia
is one of the most powerful forces in life, especially mine. So I’m revisiting the topic with some
focus. There’s nothing binding me here,
when I think about it. On the other
hand, there are few things pulling me in almost any other direction – which
doesn’t exactly help.
Last time, I did it geographically. Here’s the relevant bit of that post from
2012:
As this town (which I like, a bit,
and which contains a lot of people whom I like, a lot, but all that’s been
factored in to this blogdream) is slap bang in the middle of southern England,
and given that I miss the sea and the coast, I only really have four
options: north, south, east or
west. North is out of the question. South would mean going back to where I was
born. East is a foreign country. So that leaves West.
West
consists of Wales and the West Country.
I don’t want to live in Wales, for reasons too difficult to explain
here. So that leaves the West Country. This consists of Devon and Cornwall. Devon is tempting, but it’s too
expensive. So I’m left with Cornwall.
What was I thinking
of? There’s no way I’m going to
Cornwall. So that rules out West.
South probably
means Bournemouth – um, not really. I’m
not going to spend my remaining years mobility-scooting up and down Southbourne
Grove pining for the La Fiesta coffee bar.
I watch too many
weather forecasts to consider going much further North than Shrewsbury.
I might have been a
bit unfair on East, though – to be honest, with a few exceptions, in 2012 I knew hardly
anything about East Angular, or its denizens.
Maybe I should go and take a closer look.
Oh, I know what you mean - not that I wish to relocate from East Angular, because my children live here. But I've been eyeing Rightmove for a while now and I haven't seen a single house that I would choose over this one - yet I fear inertia keeping me here and regretting it in a few years' time.
ReplyDeleteCome to Devizes! I have a different problem in that all my kids are in and around Surrey, but I love I here. What to do?
ReplyDeleteYes, what I need to do is scan my present house and 3D print it at the location of my choice. Is there an app that does that?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure there will be in a year or two. I should live somewhere smaller - but I like big houses.
DeleteI'm sure you could afford Bath. Lovely,clean city.
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